As you’ve certainly realised long ago, we are always looking for the next accomplishment in our life in order to have a better life, and to be happier.
As you may have realised, we are never much more happy each time we reach our goal – or at least not for long. And the more we accomplish important things the more we realise all that is still missing in our life…
Now at some point it becomes obvious that we are just trying to fill a gap within us. Or at least something we think is missing in us.
We are simply not happy with ourself!
If we go a little further, we quickly realise we don’t quite like ourself. And as we are a little ashamed of certain aspects of ourself, we look outside to find something that could complete us more adequately.
The problem is that looking outside to find something that is missing inside… doesn’t work at all!!!
Better be just a little wiser and bow to the evidence: what we’re looking is just inside ourself!
So now there are obvious consequences to this, that are going to change lots of things in our quest:
- We’d better love ourself, because everything we want is within
- We have much more possibilities, and we are the person we are looking for
- Our life is way more exciting and interesting, we just need ourself
- We extremely underestimated ourself
- Our wildest dreams are locked inside us
- We put so many limits on ourselves that we don’t even love ourself
- We should stop believing we are so little
- Every situation is just an experience in our life, and we can change them as many times we want
- We are not our experiences
- We can -and should- be proud of ourself, because we are the one with all the options
