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Sex and frustration

We are all always trying to get something more, thinking our life will be better. But can you see how this something more is just there either to: compensate for something else we don’t have as a means to get something else. Or at least the better life we imagine we’ll have implies this something […]

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Disappointed by human relations

Today I’m kind of sad and disgusted. I also realize that I’ve tried to maintain a beautiful image of a relation I’ve had, and that has no reason to be that beautiful. I’ve always hoped to find someone who I could be very close to and able to count on. Someone I could share my […]

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The importance of developing good emotions

Maybe you know my difficulties with girls. Tonight I just started to experience really good emotions with a girl. And I realize all the things that change between my usual state and this moment. Leaving the adult frame of mind Usually, and I think that’s the problem of the “adult life”, I’m in a mood […]

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It actually works!

Why you should never give up, and why you must know that what you do pays off! Let me tell you a little bit how I experienced my day… and the emotions and feelings that went with it! Ups and downs A little regain of energy with good emotions when I met some friends that […]

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Choose another story, change your emotions

Very often we believe there is nothing to do but to live with difficult things in our life. We can feel deep emotions that stifles us and it is very difficult to live with. But we can completely alter what’s happening. No matter what reasons cause these difficulties. Change your story Look at the problem […]

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My source of distress with a girl

Here are my results of a little exercise I did to try to understand my problems of depedency on a girl. The exercise I wrote down that I was very attached to a girl Then I asked the question “Why?” I answered this question I repeated the cycle several times The results Several answered seemed […]

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Don’t let your emotions overwhelm you, but don’t fight them either

Because of emotions we actually “live” the stories we have in our head. If I am convinced I am lonely, I will feel it in my body and I will feel disconnected from everyone else. Emotions are very powerful, especially as we have almost no idea of what to do with them. We become a […]

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Who do you think you are?

We can feel so desperate to change certain things in our life. Especially when it comes to¬† changing ourself, to be more in harmony with whom we really feel we are. The illusion The real problem here is that we are convinced that what we feel, our emotions, are what we are. And we are […]

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Resentment: your best enem… friend

I dig deep down in my problems, and eventually all I find is… resentment! Most of the time it doesn’t really look like resentment. There is a story more complex than that. Good reasons, consequences, excuses, impossibilities, difficulties, etc…   The reality is that when I’m enthusiastic, I know I can do everything. And I […]

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