I’m between my old concepts and my old life on the one hand, and a new life with new perspectives and a new reality on the other hand.
Tonight I’m wondering what I should think of my life and of my fate… And I realise I have two options very clear and both are as real!
And the question is not “What does fate bring me?”, but “What do I choose?”.
If things have started to move and to concretely change the last months, it has nothing to do with fate!
I decided to start everything! I decided to look in this direction! I decided to take action! I decided what were the values I placed at the highest in my life!
Then things have moved.
And even if I don’t always feel that I control my fate, I know it!
And I don’t feel it because I don’t know how things are going to move to create the kind of life I desire. But I can look and see for myself that treasures are just around the corner, and even closer! And I can also see that I am the one who decides where I’m going each time!
Feelings are a quite bad indicators of what is real.
Also, my previous perceptions of life are still here, and I have to constantly remind me that I’ve been living through a story which has nothing to do with the reality. And the vast majority of my feelings are completely linked to this story (and even these stories).
My new full-time job: to create a new story where it is incredibly good to live!
Everything is available in one’s life. The only question is “What do you choose to live, according to what rules?”.
And you are the only one to make this decision!
So what is preventing us from choosing only the best?
Our stories!
- Because in our stories we are seeking vengeance for the bad that has been made to us.
- Because in our stories we need someone to save us, or to recognise our value.
- Because in our story we’ve been left alone and we need the bad to be recognised and repaired.
- Because in our story we are lacking what we need to be happy.
- Because others are unfair and we suffer because of them (and if we don’t suffer, how could they be that unfair???).
Those are the only real reasons that keep us apart from what we want so much! And it is impossible to keep those kind of stories alive and to focus on and perceive what we really want.
In every problem lies this conflict: which story do I want most?
Once again, you alone is making this choice every minute of your day!
