In reality everything you want to change in your life can be changed very easily.
I mean everything about you, not about others obviously. But that’s really the only thing that matters truly! If you are living the way you want to be, what else do you need? You can adapt to anything!
Why is everything easy to change? Because we have total control of ourself. TO-TAL!
So what makes things appear so difficult then? Our emotions. And that’s it!
What we feel, we tend to perceive it as the absolute reality. Yet, if the sensation is real, the story about it is… a story. And no feeling can prevent you from doing what you decide. It is not necessarily comfortable at first, but if you do what you choose, then your feelings are going to adapt to this new reality.
The story: it makes things appear as difficult because we perceive the reality based on the past, on our beliefs, our mood…
How to change it? Make the difference between what you think is (which is just the past that you bring in the present and the future) and what is and can be (new, as you never experienced it). The former is an illusion, the latter is the reality
Your feelings: give you a sensation that your story has implications in the reality. You can FEEL your story. But it is still a story, and it is only a sensation that you (unconsciously) created in your body.
What to do with it? Treat it as a sensation, not the reality.
It feels difficult, but it is easy. Do what you choose, and remember that you’re not feeling the reality. But what you’re doing is going to create new feelings!
Focus on that, again and again… until it becomes second nature and totally obvious to you. And you’ll be able to change anything in a snap of a finger!
Live a great life (because you are great)!
