I’ve often heard that we had to be obsessed with our goal in order to succeed.
Most of the time I think that it’s too much! I don’t want to be obsessed, I just want to be successful in what I do, and live a happy life!
But sometimes I also realise that some of my best moments were when I was actually obsessed with my goal… I was living for that “something”. 100% into it! And that was this determination that was driving me. I had a purpose, a clear vision of my ideal, and I was proud of that!
And several times I wished I could find another purpose that I would be willing to invest myself in, with that much determination! Because those moments are the times where I lived the most intensely! And I was much happier than when I live a normal life.
So why aren’t we willing to be obsessed with our goals? And more importantly, how to find this fire again?
Here is my answer…
Most of the goals we have are not important enough! Whatever we might say to ourself, it is not that important.
I mean, yes there is probably a lot of good reasons to pursuing this goal. But there is also much much more important for us! Things that we simply overlook. Even worse, most of the times our goals are only there in order to compensate for the things we are overlooking!!!
The solution becomes now much more obvious, don’t you think?
Find out what is the thing you’re craving for! Not in order to fill a gap, but in order to realise there is no gap within you!!!
I’d like to let you with this thought: is, what you’re desperately looking for, not to feel you are fully yourself? What if you could fully express yourself by all means, being completely confident and proud of yourself, at any time?
I’d say you would completely change your life!
That’s what I’m experiencing now… I hope this will inspire you too!
