When I’m happy I realize that my feelings of rejections are not there anymore. They just can’t be there. Even if right after I think again about my problems and feel sad again.
All that confirms two aspects very important:
- We are either in one state or in another, and there is no way in between. But one excludes the other.
- However sad and rejected I may feel, it is totally possible to experience quite another life in no time.
The way is really to build a life where your grievances have no validity any more. And that’s something we usually don’t do exactly for this same reason. Because we’re looking for some form of justice. For that the grievance must remain totally valid.
On the other hand, when we really feel happy and living an abundant life full of love and opportunities, we just don’t care about what happened. We are even willing to bring love to the person that rejected us. Because not only don’t we feel rejected anymore, having great experiences and love all around, but we even want to share that energy, that life, that love!
But, once again, one state excludes the other.
So for the really great life to occur, I know I must let go of my old stories, at least until I have built a real life. From there only will I be able to see things the best way possible for everyone.
But the solution is clearly not, and will never be found, in the state of sadness and bitterness. The only way is to focus on, take action, and develop the great life in which you are so happy, no matter what!
And that’s way easier than we think. From the moment you have made a clear decision about it!
