Maybe you know my difficulties with girls. Tonight I just started to experience really good emotions with a girl. And I realize all the things that change between my usual state and this moment.
Leaving the adult frame of mind
Usually, and I think that’s the problem of the “adult life”, I’m in a mood where I’m not deeply enthusiastic. What I mean is that even when I am enthusiastic, that’s usually more or less superficial. And I spend a good part of my time complaining in my head.
And I can see that now that I’m feeling other kinds of good emotions. I can see the change that it implies and all the consequences that come with it.
Now I feel more like I’m ready to face challenges in order to build the life I want. In fact I realize there are good things to live and I believe there is something for me in this life!
Even if there will not be anything particular happening with this girl, at least I’m feeling emotions I just had forgotten. Or even that I just didn’t believe anymore.
The necessity of good emotions
I have created this change little by little, by focusing and developing what I want and neglecting other stuff. But I realize now that this mindset, these emotions must be a part of my life if I want to develop them and experience them in my life!
Plus, the fact that I usually live in a gloomer mindset made my standards less intense. Which I feel now don’t fit my new mindset.
So these good emotions, if I want them to develop in my life, must have a good environment. And this environment is mostly my mindset, and so my behavior and actions will follow.
That’s where I say that we must develop the kind of good emotions we want to live with before we actually perceive the external reasons why. That way when those reasons will appear, our mindset, and everything that comes with it, will be ready to not only maintain those conditions, but also develop them.
Our emotions create our mental life. And there are a lot of techniques and practice to create and develop them!
