Have you ever noticed that all we want to have, to do or to reach, is just there to fill a gap within us?
We spend our time trying either to avoid to feel this gap or to fill it. This gap, and even these gaps, make us afraid. We feel we are not enough! That’s what makes us feel worried at all times.
Now do we have not only to reassure ourself, but also to prove at any moment that we are worth a beautiful life. That we are worth to be loved. That we are worth to have good conditions of life and that we can be proud of ourself.
That’s our biggest worry…
The problem is that we always think that once we have this job, enough money, or when we are with the right person, then our worry will disappear.
But whatever we get lets us with the same fear inside us.
All we need is to really fill this gap. But this gap is within us.
Good news, there has never been any gap within us.
Bad news, that’s what we actually feel and we live as if it was real.
All that is an illusion that we believe for many reasons. To give an example, your parents have treated you as they thought you were, not for who you actually were. And you believed them. They presented you the world and its rules as they thought they were, not as they really are. And you believed them.
From then on you acted and thought according to these concepts of you and the world. So you’ve been able to feel the consequences of these concepts as if they were real. And that’s why illusions appear as if they were our truth.
But we all know that we have personal truths that apply to us but not to others in the exact same situation. We all know a lot of things happen only in our head, and so we behave accordingly. So we know those truths are not the reality but only limits which we live with.
So all that we are looking for outside of us is also an illusion of solution. What we are actually looking for is to overcome the false limits that we think we have.
