I must admit that what scares me most, like feeling rejected by love, is only based on a very particular perception of the reality. I know that, but that doesn’t prevent me from feeling scared either!
On the other hand I know that what you focus on develops. That’s the law.
That’s why I have created routines in order to focus my mind exactly where I want. That way I’m also “creating” a reality I love.
So on the one hand I have scrary thoughts and feelings, and on the other I have loving thoughts and experiences.
Obviously the former are totally incompatible with the latter. So either you’re experiencing fear of love.
And that’s all the secret to changing an always subjective reality. Create what you want, focus on it again and again, and your mind (and so your life) is quickly going to get filled with that only reality.
So even though I have tremendous difficulties to get rid of my scaring feelings, I know the more I’m building what I love, the more I’m changing my reality.
And that’s this knowledge that allows me to make do with whatever happpens, and to continue to develop the process.
