According to:
- personal development
- spiritual teachings
- exciting lives of happy people
- our own experiences
life provides us with everything we need to be happy!
And we know that when we are ok with ourself, everything else follows, and life is beautiful! I’m not saying that nothing bad happens, but that we are still full of life and of love, even in the moments of sadness!
So what is the problem we are always trying to solve?
There are many problems! But they are all in our head, not in the reality! Because we live according to our own rules, like :
- I must be good in that area of my life in order to be happy
- I must be special (according to my own rules) in order to be recognized
- I must be strong in order to be loved
- etc…
And then we overlook the reality where we could just be very enthusiastic at all times. And what happens when you are so? Everyone around you is inclined to follow your mindset. You are much more open and nice to others. You feel great, your relations are great, and your life is great!
So what is there to remember in reality? That our rules maintain us in a state where we are just not happy. For many different reasons, all wrong! I mean, search your life and tell me: can’t you find great times in your life where you had answerd none of your own rules and was still very happy?
So what? Your rules are not at all a condition to live fully and to feel love everytime!
My conclusion is obvious: each time we don’t feel love, we are making a mistake in our interpretation of our life.
And if you remember that, according to studies, we have something like 80% of negative thoughts all day long, it is easy to realize we are building and choosing our own unhappiness.
So why wouldn’t we, very logically, feel very happy each time we realize we were just making a mistake?!!
No need to know how things are going to evolve the next minute. If we understand things are already fine:
- We can change our thoughts
- Then our vision immediately changes
- Our actions follow the same direction
- Our connections to others increase, are deeper, and contain much more love
And our whole life becomes completely different in a very short time!
The only question becomes: are we doing what it takes to stay out of our made-up stories? And to live a life full of love?
