Observe yourself! That’s key to understand where you are and what to do.
I’ve recently spoken about the motivation we have to reach some goals in order to escape from some form of fear.
Now if any kind of condition is really necessary for us to become free, free from fear, free to be fully ourself, free to express ourself by all means… then this condition is also a prison which has the power to remove this freedom. Now is there really anything that can make us be less than ourself?
No matter what the conditions in our life are, we are what we are. And if we think we can, with any kind of condition, become someone of extremely high quality (whatever your concept of high quality might be), then you are already this person.
Yes you can change your behavior, you can act differently, express yourself differently, think differently. But ultimately, that’s still you! So no matter where you are today, and how you behave or what you believe, you are already this extremely high value person! Because you can’t be someone else…
Now tell me, what goal do you need to reach in order to be who you want to be? Not any! That’s just a story you tell yourself because you placed the high value you can experiment in something outside of yourself. And so you’re not talking about you but about something that is external to you.
The only goal we should have then, is to realize that any conception of us not being enough right now comes from a story, not the reality. No matter what story it is, all the value you’re looking for is already who you are. Not necessarily what you’re experimenting now, but what you can potentially experiment now if you accept that you are the one you’re looking for. And that nothing external to you has any power to make you less than what you already are.
Have a great life!
