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Author: LOIC

“Being in love”: illusion and solution

I have a problem with that idea of “being in love”. That’s very easy to realise there is a flaw in that so-called beautiful relationship! But what is the reality we don’t want to see? Love vs being in love You’ve already probably realized that when you genuinely love someone, all you want is them […]

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Never be exclusive!

Exclusivity is only a lack of abundance Exclusivity means that the disapperance of the unique thing brings a total lack of it. Should this be important, or even vital, it means you’re in big troubles! Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. You know that. Although it depends on what we’re talking about, the […]

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Take control over your emotions

I often talk about how we live through our emotions. Those feelings make us perceive ourselves and the reality a certain way, which completely subjective. To realize that, I had to observe myself as precisely and objectively as possible. And that’s a very good first step to understand how we work, and what are the […]

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I know exactly what to do (and so do you)!

It may appear as a little pretentious, but I really know exactly what to do, and how to achieve the best things in my life! And I’d like you to realize that you know as much! Think about it this way: you are with a friend who seems not to know how to completely change […]

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Change is easy, but you must understand how

Action is key when you want to change anything in your life. But most of the time we don’t really know what we could do for a quick change. Say you’re feeling down. Sometimes we realize we should take massive action in order to change our vision of ourself, of our life. Action is simply […]

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Nothing else to reach

Observe yourself! That’s key to understand where you are and what to do. I’ve recently spoken about the motivation we have to reach some goals in order to escape from some form of fear. Now if any kind of condition is really necessary for us to become free, free from fear, free to be fully […]

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Approval / Rejection

Have you ever realized how many thoughts, behaviors, goals we have that are mainly determined by the amount of approval we can get? Similarly with what we avoid because of the fear of rejection. Because we have already once or twice been rejected when exhibiting such behavior. The problem is that both of those concepts […]

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Yes you can!

Yes you can, yes you can, yes you can! Whatever you want to change, whatever you want to achieve, wherever you want to be successful… you can do it! And that may appear as just another motivational speech, but what it is really is a focus of the mind! If you are able to observe […]

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Action: the solution to (all) your problems

The more I focus on that, and the more I realize that’s THE solution to all my problems…! Look, when you feel stuck, you feel bad, even depressed, you have no idea how to change your life, or how to step up, to get to the next level in whatever is concerned, to improve anything, […]

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